Are the Chassidim even real Jews?

I must admit that day in and day out I question myself if I am at the right side and the right track being a Chassidic Jew in Williamsburg.

Am I wasting my days being frum? Am I torching myself wearing my long garb, long pious and all other things that I give up by being a Chassidic Jew?

You are probably thinking, here we go, we are finally seeing his true colors and this blog author is an anti-Semite and hates Jews. Well, you could not have been more wrong and further from the truth. But while we are on the subject let’s get a dialogue going, and see what we are doing here, what we are following, what drives us as Chassidim, what are our priorities as Chassidim, do we live for ourselves or for our neighbors? And do we really follow the Torah, or is the Rabbi and politics more important than the Torah?

Let’s look at our behavior and let’s see how we are thought to raise our children, what our values are, what are standards are, what our priorities are, and most of all how we think that we are better than anyone else.

For starters, let me knock this bull shit out of your head. We are NOT better than anyone else, we are NOT smarter than anyone else, and don’t think for a second that we are fooling anyone. The whole universe knows that chassidim have no manners, no education, no priorities and nothing to make you think that you are somehow better and more efficient than any non-chusid. We are raised with this attitude that our way is the only way, the right way and Hashem’s way. All others are noting. That is our main and number one problem.

Somehow we deserve everything, we know everything and it’s our way or the highway. Well whom are we fooling? Look at yourself and to try to convince yourself that you live the life you want to live! You don’t! you live the life that your community leaders and neighbors want you to live, you live the life that should make you look a certain way so you are not an outcast. The sad part about it, is the guy whom you are trying to impress and you are suffering inside of yourself, is in the same position! He is faking it because he wants you to embrace him. So what kind of vicious cycle do we have over here? What kind of unhealthy living style are we all involved in?

Before you start twisting my words, let me clarify. I am not talking or discussing a liufe style that leaves the Torah way of living. CHAS V’Shalom! I am merely conferring the “Chassidishe” lifestyle that we have and somehow think that this is the way and nothing else does it! Wrong! Wrong! Wrong!

We all know what happened in New Square this past 2 weeks, where they attempted to murder a family for not following a Self-proclaimed, Non-Qualified, Worst-of-the-worst, empty-head man. We are now 2 weeks later and there still is not a clear response from that community. They have tried every angle and failed misrabely.

But ladies and gentleman, its not all about New Square. Satmar has been doing the same thing now for 25 years, on the same low level and on the same format. Vizshnitz has been right there, Bobov (they always tried to convince us – NOT BY US) is right there, and so is everyone else. Chassidim have their own rules when they need it.
Now comes a terrible Video from Israel where the GER Chassidim, physically burned a house, dismantled it and almost killed a one-year-old kid ( watch the following You Tube and then Click here for the full video and story).

The bottom line is, when it comes to chassidim they do what they want and justify it as if nothing happened. But here is the catch: We are fooling no one but ourselves. We are not pulling a quick one on anyone, we are a laughable stock in the world, whether be it the Jewish (Non-Chassidic) world or in the rest of the world. We have no manners (Because we are the chosen ones), we have no morals (Because we are the better ones), we have no self-control (cause we are smarter than the rest), and we laugh at everyone else (Very funny).

Let’s take a look on how many kids are leaving our ways lately. The number has never been this high, and you wonder why? The bigger question is Why Not? They see how we live, they see the corruption, they see the Bull Shit, they see the fake face we put out there.

Just recently there was a new best seller written by a RN (Registered Nurse) from NYU. She was assigned to people that were on their death-beds, people that the doctors gave up hope and were just waiting for last breath. This RN interviewed over 1200 dying patience over a long span and asked them what is biggest regret in life? (Mind you, this is a question that people will answer truthfully and honest as they are aware that their life is over) and the number one answer was: We lived someone else’s life. We lived a life to fit in to other people and we forced ourselves to make them happy, not ourselves.
Enough said!

There is one solution here. Either the Rabbis get together and start concentrating on the problems and adjust it to a normal, law-abiding, truthful, honest, respectful life or we have to make a serious decision if this is what we are wasting our years on this earth and whom are we impressing and whom are we fooling.
I can already see the email this one will get me, but I really don’t care