tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-4964456075151715932.post5705324145103348068..comments2022-04-01T10:16:19.912-07:00Comments on Nuchem is Right: Who am i? פרק גNuchemISrighthttp://www.blogger.com/profile/03334408532587752400noreply@blogger.comBlogger19125tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-4964456075151715932.post-49375521021729091642011-03-29T15:23:41.471-07:002011-03-29T15:23:41.471-07:00אויב עס קימט פון נחום איז עס זיכער שקראויב עס קימט פון נחום איז עס זיכער שקרAnonymousnoreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-4964456075151715932.post-2372833554437685632010-09-20T16:02:37.551-07:002010-09-20T16:02:37.551-07:00Please check out the website www.jewishadvocates.o...Please check out the website www.jewishadvocates.org, sign our petition, and find out about the upcoming National Jewish Week for the Prevention of Child Abuse being co-sponsored by the Jewish Board of Advocates for Children, the RCA, the OU, the Iggud Harabbanim and JSafe. There are more organizations signing up all the time. We hope to have people across the country talking about child safety.Asher Lipner, Ph.D.noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-4964456075151715932.post-49603297305352504242010-09-20T15:59:28.913-07:002010-09-20T15:59:28.913-07:00To the author:
Thank you for the courage to stand...To the author:<br /><br />Thank you for the courage to stand up for what is right and against what is wrong in our community. Your courage in naming your molester will inspire others, gauranteed. The more people who do it, it will have a snowball effect, with more and more coming out from the shadows.<br /><br />To those who ask "why aren't there others?" The real question is why did it take so long for anyone to go public. The answer is a combination of psychology and culture. Psychologically, victims of child sexual abuse are often traumatized. They feel tremendous fear and shame. They feel like they won't be believed (as this author is not by some). The average time it takes a child to tell ANY adult is seven years. And that is in the secular world, where there is not such a stigma and fear for shidduchim! In the Orthodox community it can be even more scary. Many people I know and have treated have attempted suicide because they could no longer live with their secret. Rates of sucide among abusers who are "outed" are not nearly as high.<br /><br />Police have told me that usually after an arrest is made more victims come forward because now they feel they will be believed. But that does NOT mean only coming forward to go public. Dear author, even if nobody else comes forward publicly about your abuser, there are people who will not even go for professional help until an arrest is made because they think that the psychologist won't believe them. <br /><br />Yasher Koyach. Chazak Ve'ematz.<br />AsherDr. Asher Lipnernoreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-4964456075151715932.post-3020080638359715082010-09-19T16:46:22.854-07:002010-09-19T16:46:22.854-07:00I remeber that bastard brahver over 40 years ago ...I remeber that bastard brahver over 40 years ago he was sick and horribile human being.Anonymousnoreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-4964456075151715932.post-83077603579703471412010-09-19T13:28:06.986-07:002010-09-19T13:28:06.986-07:00Someone said to me, ask many friends of Yoeli Enge...Someone said to me, ask many friends of Yoeli Engelman in cheder and they will tell you that he is an oisworf, he is a liar, ask 1000 and 1000 of kids and they will tell you that A Reichman never touched them. Well, if he touched only 5 among 10000 kids that's more than enough. They probably do it very discretionary out of fear. And that that he is an oisworf, probably so. How Should he not be after he was molested. I would say the same about reb Chaim Aryeh. Just because he didn't do it to hundreds of other kids doesn't mean he didn't do it to a handful few. He probably picked from time to time a new korban (victim)Anonymousnoreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-4964456075151715932.post-7227822949880410242010-09-19T12:58:43.721-07:002010-09-19T12:58:43.721-07:00I think the commenters who question the validity o...I think the commenters who question the validity of your story because "nobody else claimed it" have a point.<br /><br />But this is why people need to be educated regarding people who molest others. <br /><br />Molesters are just like every other Frum Yid. They daven with kavana, learn with hasmada, makpid on only certain hashgochos, peyos , black hat, etc ... .<br /><br />They have no distinguishing characteristics.<br /><br />That is why they can have so many defenders and also molest for their whole lives.<br /><br />People have to learn that it is not a contradiction to be a molester and also be a 100% frum Yid. (a very scary thought)<br /><br />We might see it as a contradiction , but they are dealing with their own Yetzer Hara. They might even sometimes overpower their Yetzer hara but sometimes they fail.<br /><br />You cannot tell a person who was molested that what he is saying absolutely can't be true because you have known so and so for so many years.<br /><br />The molested person might knows things about the person that you don't know.Anonymousnoreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-4964456075151715932.post-9727553823250564362010-09-19T11:59:13.427-07:002010-09-19T11:59:13.427-07:00thats the way you answer?
Very smart and talented...thats the way you answer? <br />Very smart and talented!!!Anonymousnoreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-4964456075151715932.post-30130462752107374802010-09-19T11:46:51.174-07:002010-09-19T11:46:51.174-07:00To Anonymous said.
You are either a pedophile you...To Anonymous said.<br /><br />You are either a pedophile yourself or your IQ is lower than that of a CHICKEN. When you try to take the chicks from the mother hen, she will fight you with all she has, but you, would smack your kid and call him a <i>sheigetz</i> and a liar. Wake up, grab THE SNEAKERS and SMELL THE CHAIR.משתתף בצערן של ישראלnoreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-4964456075151715932.post-87398015332967786462010-09-19T11:45:43.736-07:002010-09-19T11:45:43.736-07:00I can not tell you anything about R’ Chaim arye” I...I can not tell you anything about R’ Chaim arye” I was in his class and he never did anything to me, but I will tell you that his son Nusen Shie (pretty sure that’s his name) abused me in satmar camp he was my “shluf rabbi” and abused me more than once and threatened me not to tell anything to anyone, and I was petrified and didn’t talk.Anonymousnoreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-4964456075151715932.post-81785579203085126042010-09-19T11:36:24.888-07:002010-09-19T11:36:24.888-07:00use your great energy for good thinks... but don&#...use your great energy for good thinks... but don't Lie.....Anonymousnoreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-4964456075151715932.post-8991409524356554522010-09-19T11:34:44.798-07:002010-09-19T11:34:44.798-07:00How come NOBODY and Again NOBODY claimed any of th...How come NOBODY and Again NOBODY claimed any of this action on "R’ Chaim Aryeh Braver”???????? they all hated him for being STRICT...Anonymousnoreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-4964456075151715932.post-62544882013334453472010-09-19T11:32:51.091-07:002010-09-19T11:32:51.091-07:00After that last comment, I just had a flash back t...After that last comment, I just had a flash back to my childhood and it is scary how I still feel that terrible feeling in my body, just by this skunk making that statement “ I think you are lying”<br /><br />All I can say, it gives me more energy and proof that I need to do what I am doing, and gives me more appreciation for Rabbi Nuchem!NuchemISrighthttps://www.blogger.com/profile/03334408532587752400noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-4964456075151715932.post-86788763746690807102010-09-19T11:30:29.544-07:002010-09-19T11:30:29.544-07:00Why am I NOT surprised that you think I am lying? ...Why am I NOT surprised that you think I am lying? How do you expect your own kid to come and tell you if he is abused when the first thing you have on your mind is “I think you are lying”<br /><br />How do these little kids have a chance in hell, when the adults are so stupid and shallow? Rabbi Nuchem you are so needed here in this community, it is mind boggling!NuchemISrighthttps://www.blogger.com/profile/03334408532587752400noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-4964456075151715932.post-32824775091611717142010-09-19T11:28:42.955-07:002010-09-19T11:28:42.955-07:00To Anonymous 1
Don't be silly!!!!To Anonymous 1<br />Don't be silly!!!!Anonymousnoreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-4964456075151715932.post-39887492342944636672010-09-19T11:27:18.258-07:002010-09-19T11:27:18.258-07:00To NuchemISright said...
Manny Manny of his Talmid...To NuchemISright said...<br />Manny Manny of his Talmidim complaint of him being very strict!!!! NOBODY and Again NOBODY claimed any of this action on "R’ Chaim Aryeh Braver” <br />NuchemISright did he do it in public ? can you prove it with any other talmid? I think you are lying..Anonymousnoreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-4964456075151715932.post-52295162040004981302010-09-19T11:06:31.496-07:002010-09-19T11:06:31.496-07:00I don’t feel that I have to explain “Exactly” what...I don’t feel that I have to explain “Exactly” what was done, but I will tell you he touched me inappropriately and forced his genitals on me and made me touch him his private parts. Is that good enough for you, or is that really not that bad?NuchemISrighthttps://www.blogger.com/profile/03334408532587752400noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-4964456075151715932.post-91318953034961586022010-09-19T10:05:02.667-07:002010-09-19T10:05:02.667-07:00can you explain exactly what "R’ Chaim Aryeh ...can you explain exactly what "R’ Chaim Aryeh Braver” did to you?Anonymousnoreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-4964456075151715932.post-56747721649003070802010-09-19T10:01:52.134-07:002010-09-19T10:01:52.134-07:00Why do you have to use MENUVELISH WORDS here? its ...Why do you have to use MENUVELISH WORDS here? its only a sign that you are a MENUVEL!!!Anonymousnoreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-4964456075151715932.post-46898816306916345712010-09-19T09:30:08.488-07:002010-09-19T09:30:08.488-07:00Wow, wow, I knew reb Chai Arye. I held him in such...Wow, wow, I knew reb Chai Arye. I held him in such high esteem. He did the best shidduchim with his children. He was laid to rest in KJ in a very high place, very close to the ohel, among the most chushive yiden. I know of many other very fine yiden who were not afforded such an honor. This is shocking. He used to go noch geld every day bein minche maariv. This is the last man I would have believed it.Anonymousnoreply@blogger.com